I did a ton of Googling and research on your website and I think I can string together what I am looking to do. I don't know if I can delete my thread or not, but if I can't, still any input is helpful.

Hey, I am an IT student (Network Systems Administrator).

My friends and I play PC games all the time (c'mon I said I was in IT!) and our choice of (instead of messing with Ventrilo and ever since Skype got annoying) voice chat software is Dolby Axon (laugh if you want but its awesome).

The problem is, there is no way to send a message to a friend (who could be in the middle of an import scrimmage) without inviting them to...