I want to pass the referance to a variable around, how do I do that?

(unit is a complex object I made, and wondering about more complex data types)
dim unit1 as new unit
dim unit2 as new unit
dim unit3 as new unit

unit1=1
unit2=2
unit3= byref unit2
unit3 += unit1

'now unit2 should =3

I know this doesn't work...but it should show what I WANT to do....I...