I am having trouble getting javascript controls to work on the flvplayer.swf. I think this is related to the flvplayer.swf being located on a external server.

All the javascript methods like Play,Pause works fine if I give physical location of an swf src, like: -
[code=html]
<object>
<embed width="640" height="380" type="applicati on/x-shockwave-flash" src="player/flvplayer.swf"...