Pleease reference this thread:
http://www.thescripts.com/forum/thread596738.html
Size your Pic file to .5 x .5 inches. (for some reason this was necessary.)
You can use Microsoft Photo Editor or Photoshop for editing/cropping.
Here's the C# code:
this.Icon = Icon.FromHandle (new Bitmap(Bitmap.F romFile(YourFil ePath_PIC)).Get Hicon());
Stream st = new...