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  • aa

    thanking for help

    In this NG should one say Thanks for help received, or better not?
    The politeness urges for thanking, yet seeing how some people react to
    messages sent in HTML format, one might think that thanking messages might
    irritate these who seem to be concerned with the number of bits they
    download.


  • Andy Hassall

    #2
    Re: thanking for help

    On Sat, 25 Sep 2004 12:48:58 +0100, "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote:
    [color=blue]
    >In this NG should one say Thanks for help received, or better not?
    >The politeness urges for thanking, yet seeing how some people react to
    >messages sent in HTML format, one might think that thanking messages might
    >irritate these who seem to be concerned with the number of bits they
    >download.[/color]

    I think the "Smart Questions" page sums this up quite nicely:



    --
    Andy Hassall / <andy@andyh.co. uk> / <http://www.andyh.co.uk >
    <http://www.andyhsoftwa re.co.uk/space> Space: disk usage analysis tool

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    • Janwillem Borleffs

      #3
      Re: thanking for help

      aa wrote:[color=blue]
      > In this NG should one say Thanks for help received, or better not?
      > The politeness urges for thanking, yet seeing how some people react to
      > messages sent in HTML format, one might think that thanking messages
      > might irritate these who seem to be concerned with the number of bits
      > they download.[/color]

      One of the many good things of thanking for help, is that others can see
      that the provided solution has solved the problem.

      Another thing is that it's nice to know that the effort of answering is
      appreciated, so please do!


      JW



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      • aa

        #4
        Re: thanking for help

        Thanks
        http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html is indeed a very
        interesting document.
        Sounds like a Code of Conduct for a Lunatic Assylum where the Director have
        many corns, patients should avoid to step on.
        The person who wrote this, bubbles with self-significance.
        Indeed, he does not charge cash for his "free" advice, but one has to pay
        him in kind by licking his bottom and pleasing his small but numerous egos.


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        • CJ Llewellyn

          #5
          Re: thanking for help

          "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote in message
          news:41559c0c$0 $82238$ed2619ec @ptn-nntp-reader03.plus.n et...[color=blue]
          > Thanks
          > http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html is indeed a very
          > interesting document.
          > Sounds like a Code of Conduct for a Lunatic Assylum where the Director[/color]
          have[color=blue]
          > many corns, patients should avoid to step on.
          > The person who wrote this, bubbles with self-significance.
          > Indeed, he does not charge cash for his "free" advice, but one has to pay
          > him in kind by licking his bottom and pleasing his small but numerous[/color]
          egos.

          Why not just tell us where you live so we can come around your house and be
          anti-social by stuffing dog shit through your letter box, smashing your
          windows and slashing your car tyres?

          As you obviously live in world where respect for other people doesn't exist
          you really won't mind.



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          • Stefan Hegenbart

            #6
            Re: thanking for help

            CJ Llewellyn wrote:
            [color=blue]
            > "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote in message
            > news:41559c0c$0 $82238$ed2619ec @ptn-nntp-reader03.plus.n et...
            >[color=green]
            >>Thanks
            >>http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html is indeed a very
            >>interesting document.
            >>Sounds like a Code of Conduct for a Lunatic Assylum where the Director[/color]
            >
            > have
            >[color=green]
            >>many corns, patients should avoid to step on.
            >>The person who wrote this, bubbles with self-significance.
            >>Indeed, he does not charge cash for his "free" advice, but one has to pay
            >>him in kind by licking his bottom and pleasing his small but numerous[/color]
            >
            > egos.
            >
            > Why not just tell us where you live so we can come around your house and be
            > anti-social by stuffing dog shit through your letter box, smashing your
            > windows and slashing your car tyres?
            >
            > As you obviously live in world where respect for other people doesn't exist
            > you really won't mind.
            >
            >
            >[/color]
            and isn't it ironic.. don't you think.. it's like raaaain.. *sing*

            i can only speak for myself. i appreciate a small thanks to know my
            advice helped or maybe it didn't. it's like feedback and can improve the
            quality of my answers (and my mood!)

            reg.
            sh

            --
            "The goal of Computer Science is to build something that will last at
            least until we've finished building it." -- unknown

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            • aa

              #7
              Re: thanking for help

              Sorry, CJ Llewellyn, I did not know that you are the author of that Code and
              did not mean to hurt you.
              Please accept my appology.
              If you are so excited about (I quote) "we can to come around and be
              anti-social by stuffing dog shit through letter box, smashing windows and
              slashing your car tyres" - then no need to bother - you have just
              accomplished that.
              Once again, I am sorry for troubling trouble.


              "CJ Llewellyn" <invalid@exampl e.con> wrote in message
              news:cj48de$v6s $1@slavica.ukpo st.com...[color=blue]
              > "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote in message
              > news:41559c0c$0 $82238$ed2619ec @ptn-nntp-reader03.plus.n et...[color=green]
              > > Thanks
              > > http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html is indeed a very
              > > interesting document.
              > > Sounds like a Code of Conduct for a Lunatic Assylum where the Director[/color]
              > have[color=green]
              > > many corns, patients should avoid to step on.
              > > The person who wrote this, bubbles with self-significance.
              > > Indeed, he does not charge cash for his "free" advice, but one has to[/color][/color]
              pay[color=blue][color=green]
              > > him in kind by licking his bottom and pleasing his small but numerous[/color]
              > egos.
              >
              > Why not just tell us where you live so we can come around your house and[/color]
              be[color=blue]
              > anti-social by stuffing dog shit through your letter box, smashing your
              > windows and slashing your car tyres?
              >
              > As you obviously live in world where respect for other people doesn't[/color]
              exist[color=blue]
              > you really won't mind.
              >
              >
              >[/color]


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              • Mark A. Boyd

                #8
                Re: thanking for help

                On Sat, 25 Sep 2004 16:28:01 GMT, aa wrote:
                [color=blue]
                > Thanks
                > http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html is indeed a very
                > interesting document.
                > Sounds like a Code of Conduct for a Lunatic Assylum where the Director
                > have many corns, patients should avoid to step on.
                > The person who wrote this, bubbles with self-significance.
                > Indeed, he does not charge cash for his "free" advice, but one has to
                > pay him in kind by licking his bottom and pleasing his small but
                > numerous egos.[/color]

                <unlurk>
                Speaking as one who has been using newsgroups and mailing lists for many
                years, it seems to me he is offering advice based on observances. He
                clearly states what can happen when one strays outside the general
                guidelines he's posted. I have observed the same and can vouch for it both
                from a newbie status and as one who offers help.

                His is certainly not the first or only page to make such
                observations/advice. A google search on netiquette results in many hits for
                similar pages.

                If you choose not to follow such advice, don't be surprised if/when you get
                the responses he warned you about.
                </unlurk>


                --
                Mark A. Boyd
                Keep-On-Learnin' :)

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                • aa

                  #9
                  Re: thanking for help

                  "i appreciate a small thanks to know my advice helped"

                  So do I. However I saw a strongly expressed opinion of a "hacker" that he
                  was too busy to download someone's self-indulgence in politeness - hence my
                  doubts.

                  BTW, why some people are so against HTML? I appreciate last century it
                  indeed used to make difference in download time - it this still the case
                  now? To my mind HTML helps to make a message more readbly as it allows to
                  hightlight the important bits


                  "Stefan Hegenbart" <ich@hegi.inf o> wrote in message
                  news:2rlngiF1cm cfuU1@uni-berlin.de...[color=blue]
                  > CJ Llewellyn wrote:
                  >[color=green]
                  > > "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote in message
                  > > news:41559c0c$0 $82238$ed2619ec @ptn-nntp-reader03.plus.n et...
                  > >[color=darkred]
                  > >>Thanks
                  > >>http://www.catb.org/~esr/faqs/smart-questions.html is indeed a very
                  > >>interesting document.
                  > >>Sounds like a Code of Conduct for a Lunatic Assylum where the Director[/color]
                  > >
                  > > have
                  > >[color=darkred]
                  > >>many corns, patients should avoid to step on.
                  > >>The person who wrote this, bubbles with self-significance.
                  > >>Indeed, he does not charge cash for his "free" advice, but one has to[/color][/color][/color]
                  pay[color=blue][color=green][color=darkred]
                  > >>him in kind by licking his bottom and pleasing his small but numerous[/color]
                  > >
                  > > egos.
                  > >
                  > > Why not just tell us where you live so we can come around your house and[/color][/color]
                  be[color=blue][color=green]
                  > > anti-social by stuffing dog shit through your letter box, smashing your
                  > > windows and slashing your car tyres?
                  > >
                  > > As you obviously live in world where respect for other people doesn't[/color][/color]
                  exist[color=blue][color=green]
                  > > you really won't mind.
                  > >
                  > >
                  > >[/color]
                  > and isn't it ironic.. don't you think.. it's like raaaain.. *sing*
                  >
                  > i can only speak for myself. i appreciate a small thanks to know my
                  > advice helped or maybe it didn't. it's like feedback and can improve the
                  > quality of my answers (and my mood!)
                  >
                  > reg.
                  > sh
                  >
                  > --
                  > "The goal of Computer Science is to build something that will last at
                  > least until we've finished building it." -- unknown[/color]


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                  • Michael Fesser

                    #10
                    Re: thanking for help

                    .oO(aa)
                    [color=blue]
                    >BTW, why some people are so against HTML?[/color]

                    Usenet (and e-mail) is a plain text medium.
                    [color=blue]
                    >I appreciate last century it
                    >indeed used to make difference in download time - it this still the case
                    >now?[/color]

                    Yes. How many people have DSL? Even with ISDN it makes a big difference
                    if you have to download 8KB _per posting_ or just 2KB. Not to mention
                    modem users (yes, they still exist, and one advantages of usenet is that
                    you don't need a highspeed connection).
                    [color=blue]
                    >To my mind HTML helps to make a message more readbly as it allows to
                    >hightlight the important bits[/color]

                    Too expensive. Postings bloated to 2-3 times their original size just
                    for highlighting this or that and the need to use another software? If
                    I'd want HTML I would use a webforum, but I prefer usenet because it's
                    simple, fast, usable and reliable, messages contain the informations I
                    want in its purest and most accessible form. Additionally I can emphase
                    certain things even in pure ASCII if necessary: _underlined_, /italic/,
                    *bold*. Most people understand that.

                    Another thing (not directly related to usenet postings): What is one of
                    the reasons for e-mail-worm attacks besides broken mail agents? Yes,
                    HTML and its capability of containing active content. My mail- and news-
                    reader only handles plain text, a worm can't even knock on the door.

                    I like HTML and all the stuff around it very much, but only where it
                    belongs, not in e-mail or usenet.

                    Micha

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                    • Theo

                      #11
                      Re: thanking for help

                      "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote in
                      news:4155c0bf$0 $82236$ed2619ec @ptn-nntp-reader03.plus.n et:
                      [color=blue]
                      > "i appreciate a small thanks to know my advice helped"
                      >
                      > So do I. However I saw a strongly expressed opinion of a "hacker" that
                      > he was too busy to download someone's self-indulgence in politeness -
                      > hence my doubts.
                      >[/color]

                      Thanking people is always good, and in case I neglected to do so for my
                      own questions... Thanks everyone!
                      [color=blue]
                      > BTW, why some people are so against HTML? I appreciate last century
                      > it indeed used to make difference in download time - it this still the
                      > case now? To my mind HTML helps to make a message more readbly as it
                      > allows to hightlight the important bits[/color]

                      Perhaps Im overstating things but I thought it had to do with security
                      and HTML automatically accessing unwanted content, especially with
                      outlook.

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                      • aa

                        #12
                        thanks

                        It is always useful to see different opinions - thanks everybody who replied


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                        • CJ Llewellyn

                          #13
                          Re: thanking for help

                          "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote in message
                          news:4155c0bf$0 $82236$ed2619ec @ptn-nntp-reader03.plus.n et...[color=blue]
                          > "i appreciate a small thanks to know my advice helped"
                          >
                          > So do I. However I saw a strongly expressed opinion of a "hacker" that he
                          > was too busy to download someone's self-indulgence in politeness - hence[/color]
                          my[color=blue]
                          > doubts.
                          >
                          > BTW, why some people are so against HTML? I appreciate last century it
                          > indeed used to make difference in download time - it this still the case
                          > now? To my mind HTML helps to make a message more readbly as it allows to
                          > hightlight the important bits[/color]

                          When you look at a HTML e-mail/usenet post (right click, properties) you'll
                          see that you are sending the message twice, so your message is a lot bigger
                          than it needs to be. You message doesn't just reside on one server, it is
                          distributed to approximately 80,000/150,000 servers. Where it takes up a lot
                          more storeage and bandwidth than it needs. This in turn is costing you and
                          everyone else who pays for an Internet connection more money as your ISP
                          needs bigger hard drives, faster servers, more Internet pipelines.

                          People with visual impairments will be using text to speach readers, try
                          reading <span><font size="+3">THANK S</font></span> out loud to somebody and
                          see if they understand it.

                          As for your comments about ESR, well they may be right, people who have
                          actually met him say his personal hygine leaves a lot to be desired.

                          As for HTML in usenet, it's anti-social, unwarrented, no thanks.


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                          • Chung Leong

                            #14
                            Re: thanking for help


                            "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote in message
                            news:4155c0bf$0 $82236$ed2619ec @ptn-nntp-reader03.plus.n et...[color=blue]
                            > "i appreciate a small thanks to know my advice helped"
                            >
                            > So do I. However I saw a strongly expressed opinion of a "hacker" that he
                            > was too busy to download someone's self-indulgence in politeness - hence[/color]
                            my[color=blue]
                            > doubts.
                            >
                            > BTW, why some people are so against HTML? I appreciate last century it
                            > indeed used to make difference in download time - it this still the case
                            > now? To my mind HTML helps to make a message more readbly as it allows to
                            > hightlight the important bits[/color]

                            I agree with you there. As it is, you get all sort of weird line breaks when
                            you reply to a message because the addition of "> " sometimes pushes a line
                            to beyond 80 characters long.

                            The resistance to HTML is just Internet conservatism at work, methinks.
                            UseNet is one part of the net that hasn't seen much commercialisati on, so we
                            don't have the same entrepreneurial spirit that helped push web technology
                            forward. If we apply the reasons people cited to the web, our browsers would
                            still look more or less like NCSA Mosaic v.1.


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                            • Steve

                              #15
                              Re: thanking for help

                              Chung Leong wrote:[color=blue]
                              > "aa" <aa@virgin.ne t> wrote in message
                              > news:4155c0bf$0 $82236$ed2619ec @ptn-nntp-reader03.plus.n et...
                              >[color=green]
                              >>"i appreciate a small thanks to know my advice helped"
                              >>
                              >>So do I. However I saw a strongly expressed opinion of a "hacker" that he
                              >>was too busy to download someone's self-indulgence in politeness - hence[/color]
                              >
                              > my
                              >[color=green]
                              >>doubts.
                              >>
                              >>BTW, why some people are so against HTML? I appreciate last century it
                              >>indeed used to make difference in download time - it this still the case
                              >>now? To my mind HTML helps to make a message more readbly as it allows to
                              >>hightlight the important bits[/color]
                              >
                              >
                              > I agree with you there. As it is, you get all sort of weird line breaks when
                              > you reply to a message because the addition of "> " sometimes pushes a line
                              > to beyond 80 characters long.
                              >
                              > The resistance to HTML is just Internet conservatism at work, methinks.
                              > UseNet is one part of the net that hasn't seen much commercialisati on, so we
                              > don't have the same entrepreneurial spirit that helped push web technology
                              > forward. If we apply the reasons people cited to the web, our browsers would
                              > still look more or less like NCSA Mosaic v.1.
                              >
                              >[/color]
                              If you think that, then why not raise an rfc and get it changed?

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